“ Originally Posted by gadget945 
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Psychologists may disagree,
Not to get on my soawckedox or thread cra*. I think the term you were looking for was Psychiatrist. A psychiatrist is a doctor who went to med school and for whatever reason decided to take the lowest paid doctor position as a psychiatrist. They hand out psy pills like it's candy at a parade and they get PAID by the pharmaceutical compaines like regular doctors. Psychologists spend an average of 6.5 years in grad school AFTER thier B.A. degrees, where they specialize in how the brain works, but they CAN'T prescribe ANY medication. However, the trend is changing and more states are FINALLY allowing Psychologists to write meds. After all they have a Doctoral degree...................anyway, I'm sure supe will back me on this, just right not he's scratching his head at what I mean. LOL.
“ Originally Posted by eklipz3 ”
it just sucks because im in the worse time of my life right now
I'll leave you with these parting thoughts. Break ups, of any kind especially marriage, has the same emotional attachment, and intensity as the death of a spouse, only with a break up the person is still alive. What you are feeling inside is NORMAL. You should start to feel better after about 3 months. Yea, I know. In the meantime if you are having trouble sleeping, I assume you are, go to your general practice doctor, tell him what’s going on, be brief, and ask for something to help you sleep.
For the rest of the time, you need to decide if all the drama is worth staying with her. There must have been a reason for you fell so hard for her, but people grow apart, for whatever reason. (I have some CRAZY stories) But you need to make a decision. Is your emotion, and eventually physical health worth staying, or it's forth and long, so you need to punt and move on. Or move out, get separated, take some time apart, etc. BUT, if you do stay with her, you would smart to get BOTH of you into see a family counselor. I used to not believe in the "quack cr*p," but now that I’m older I’m all about it. Much to a fault as you have seen my posts lately.
It doesn't matter if you tell your dog, a close friend, post here, write it on a bar napkin, but talking about your problems by any means helps. So post away brother, we'll listen. If it comes down to it pm me. I'll help as best I can. Same goes for daisy.