Re: When is it my turn
Honey, it's gonna suck, it's gonna hurt, and it ain't gonna get better anytime soon.
For the people around you that expect you to be happy all the time - tell them you appreciate their concern, but you are trying to realistically handle a bad breakup.
There are over a million eligible, single women out there. Just not the right one for you, not right now. In a minute, maybe.
You do need to accept some responsibility in the way things worked out though. The fact that she was a skank and screwed you over is a big portion of the situation, but you let her do it. You have got to stick up for yourself. All wounds that you experience in life are self-inflicted. You gave someone permission to take control over your situation and you thought you were doing the right thing, that she wouldn't hurt you because you loved her.
I am really just trying to be realistic about the situation, been there, done that. I have been married three times, countless boyfriends and toys later, and here I am. It takes a lot of work to make a relationship work. It takes some give and take. But if folks are just taking it's not a relationship.
Stay true to yourself, tell yourself you are a good person. Sometimes bad things happen to good people. It's all good and things will get better.
On a side note, if you wanna pay for plane fare, I will come out there and whip her good for you, if you think that would help. :blowkiss: If you think a change of scenery would help, you could always come down here and melt with the rest of us!:qq:
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