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Kill ActiveSync description
This is a useful utility that will kill the MS ActiveSync icon from the System Tray.
Kill ActiveSync is a useful utility that will kill the MS ActiveSync icon from the System Tray and prevent ActiveSync from loading again until you run it again. To Use, when you are done using MS ActiveSync simply run this application and select "Kill ActiveSync" It will then stop the program from running and prevent it from starting up on next reboot.
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